I don’t have to be a PTA parent to be involved

“Mom I can’t wait for school to start!” How many kids do you hear saying that? Well, when I was growing up, I would say that too. I’m not surprised my kids say the same thing. My daughter will be entering the fourth grade this year. That’s right. I only have two years left of elementary school and I’m not sure about how I feel in regards to that yet. Nevertheless, experiencing my daughter navigate elementary school has been, without a doubt, one of the most enjoyable experiences ever. She’s a smart cookie, and as a single mother/former teen mama, I feel pretty darn proud!

Then there’s my son. My little man who will begin his second year at a different school to attend an incredible special education program. Earlier this summer I got the news that he would be “retained” because he had failed to meet any of the standards of first grade kids; I was very upset, and my daughter was in tears. His teacher was kind enough to call me so that we could discuss and I told her I understood completely. When report cards came in the mail, there was a note, “We’ll make a great team next year. See you in the second grade.” Come to find out, he had been recommended for the second grade after all, the biggest reason? The teacher was well aware that I am present and involved in every single aspect of his education. Out of his class of 8, I was the only parent who made it to every single event, the only parent to write a note every single day, and the only one to request updates when I didn’t get them. Myth busted: young parents are involved in their children’s education.

As they both head back to school, I remain involved in what this new school year will bring. I’m looking forward to the concerts, the plays, the talent shows and all family nights that we just absolutely cannot miss. I might not have the time to join the PTA, but both my kids know that I will always be there when it comes to school. Not only them, but the school staff as well.

How do you remain involved in your child’s education?