Being in School as a Pregnant Teen

Going to high school as a pregnant and parenting teen led to many mixed emotions, negative thoughts, shame and stigma, but most definitely also an eagerness to graduate. That desire to graduate was only reinforced by all the negative things society had to say about young parents not graduating and dropping out of school. In my school the rumor went around after every vacation I tool that apparently I wasn’t coming back. Completely bogus. A lot of the mixed emotions and negative thoughts were the awkward things I experienced during the school day throughout the school year, not only pregnant but coming back after birth. Luckily I was able to graduate on time in 2013.

In May 2014 I submitted my oral testimony at the Boston Public School (BPS) policy hearing about my experiences in high school, and why the expectant and pregnant policy should be passed for the upcoming school year. With all the advocacy done towards the issue, on June 4th 2014 the policy passed! Now BPS has a great policy on expectant and parenting students. Pregnant or parenting students now have the opportunity to finish their high school education without being mistreated or unaware of their rights. I am very excited to see the results on how this policy improves the graduation outcomes for the BPS students.

After graduating high school I quickly enrolled in Bunker Hill as a full time student. Due to my child care inconveniences and lack of motivation I didn’t complete the fall or spring semesters for the 2013-2014 school year. I knew i wanted to go to school, but the pressure lead me to take on a college responsibility before I was really ready. After being out of school for two semesters I finally realized I wanted to be in school and i am ready to go back and kick ass! I am now motivated, something that I didn’t feel right after I graduated.

In my situation it took me taking time out of school to realize what I wanted. As a young parent I may tell you it is okay to not know what you want to do for the rest of your life at such a young age. Its okay to feel unmotivated and scared at some point, after all the negative things coming at you sometimes school may be the last thing on your mind. And for those who are completely ready to start college and are motivated after high school, hey I admire that and look up to you! Not everyone is the same, this is just what I experienced after high school and now I am striving for great things in life. I’m ready to get my degree and be successful, not to prove the world wrong, but to prove myself right!


I love your honesty in this post Ciara - what a gift and something we all can learn from in thinking about our own life stories - struggles and successes alike!

OMG this -> "As a young parent I may tell you it is okay to not know what you want to do for the rest of your life at such a young age." You are amazing, Ciara. Glad to know you. <3

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